He who is not happy with what he has will not be happy with what he wants.
The most common misconception when assessing your capabilities
When discussing this topic, people mistakenly believe that you need to initially have connections, special talent, education, money or extraordinary skills. Then they will be able to do what they want, become what they dreamed of becoming, sleep until lunch, in a word, they will be happy.
Many also believe that success is the result of a favorable combination of circumstances, luck, or luck. It seems to us that we need certain external components that will lead us to Success and a state of happiness.
Most of us think like this: “First I’ll earn a lot of money, then I’ll take care of my health, personal and spiritual growth and I will be happy...”. Actually, this is what society teaches us.
One Eastern parable says about this:
“Money can buy a bed, but not sleep; food, but no appetite; medicines, but not health; servants, but not friends; women, but not love; home, but not home; entertainment, but not joy; education, but not intelligence."
In fact for most people this formula... doesn't work. “I swear, if people began to mistake happiness for money, and money for happiness, then no one will ever receive the Golden Key,” said the wise turtle Tortila.
The truth is that you may or may not earn money, but you can lose your health once and for all. What kind of happiness can we talk about then?
Moving along this path, even achieving certain results in the material sphere, you will constantly find yourself faced with new needs and be in a constant search for happiness, each time setting yourself new conditions for finding it. The list of these conditions can be endless. In pursuit of new symbols of happiness, you feel like you are on an endless treadmill.
As John Lennon sang, “You keep making plans for life, but it’s already underway.”
It's like a never-ending chase for tomorrow. The next acquisition initiates the desire for a new acquisition.
How much someone needs to be happy, everyone decides for themselves. The outstanding philosopher of the 18th century Grigory Skovoroda spoke about a fountain surrounded by people with various vessels in their hands: But “The main thing is that everyone is full of being.”
There's nothing wrong with wanting more; the main thing is to avoid attachment and dependence on the desire for more. It must be remembered that as soon as your ego falls in love with material goods, your happiness from you goes into them, you identify yourself with them, and your growth and development stops. There is no need to covet money and things, you just need to use them - apply them, admire them, experience pleasure. The main thing is not to look for yourself in them! You are much more than your ego assures you, which drags literally everything into its treasury of identifications - from things to opinions about yourself. Otherwise, you will be doomed to spend your whole life collecting this endless pile of trinkets, which will completely close you off from your true “I” and the correct understanding of the level of “Being”.
To realize the futility of this process, you don’t have to wait for the moment when there are 5 minutes left before the “closing of the curtain”... This is a question of the balance of material and spiritual, where contradictions are not at all necessary, since both are two sides of the same coin. But everything real, material, is created from the spiritual, and the spiritual is primary.
Of course, every person, in the process of his comprehensive development, must also develop the material side of his existence. Without a certain amount of money, you will not be able to experience the fullness of life, this is undeniable. Gandhi said: “There are people in this world who are so hungry that they cannot see God in anything but bread.”
Awareness of the value of the current moment, gratitude for it - this is the main principle of attracting what you want into your life.
Socrates said: “He who is not content with what he has will not be content with what he wants.”
“Many, having accumulated wealth, found not an end to their troubles, but other troubles.”(Epicurus) .
Sophia Loren once said: “The two great advantages I received at birth were that I was born smart and born into poverty...”. Paradoxically, this great actress considered poverty at the beginning of her life to be a good gift, and wealth at birth to be the most difficult test for a person.
The famous oligarch Vladimir Potanin adds: “A million inherited allows a person to get a good education, get a job calmly, without haste, and realize himself. The billion transferred kills him, deprives him of the meaning of life.”.
Vladimir Korotkevich, a Belarusian writer, author of many historical novels, said that previously the sons of rich parents, until the age of 12, were raised in the poor families of their peasants, then they took them away and informed the boy that he was a rich heir. As a result, by this time my son had managed to acquire the necessary knowledge and skills, as well as a healthy idea of life.
“Wealth - health - happiness”... Why not the other way around: start with a feeling of happiness right “here and now”, with taking care of your health, and consistently begin to move towards well-being? After all, in order to become happy, to feel happiness simply and without preconditions, there is no need to wait for something. After all, happiness can only be felt in the present time!
Pythagoras also said that those who know how to live in the present can be happy.
And the famous expert in high performance psychology Jim Loehr adds - “Money won’t buy you happiness, but happiness will help you become richer.”.
So where does it all begin? In fact “Be - Do - Have” - this is the correct sequence in realizing your dreams.
- First you focus on who you are and who you should be in relation to your purpose;
- then on what you think, feel and how you act;
- and only then what will you get as a result.
Level "Be" means to be at peace with yourself, a balanced internal state. This sequence gives you natural inner integrity and harmonious structure. That's why: “Be – Do – Own!”.
Goethe wrote: “To get more, you must first become more.”. After all, you are not the things you have, and not even what you do and what you do, and not what others think about you. You are the qualities and states that are inside you. The Bible says: “What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and destroy himself?”
We think of ourselves as if we are our cars, things, work, titles, environment, salary, regalia, diplomas, reputation, etc. To the question “Who are you?” We most often define ourselves by what we do or what we have.
But if you are what you have, then if it is taken away from you, then you are gone? Nowadays this is done easily, and you yourself know many examples of this. “Today is Caesar, tomorrow is nothing,” said Virgil. For this reason, when the global crisis broke out, many bankrupt businessmen took their own lives. Their belief system was that they were their business. Having lost him, they thought that they had lost everything and did not see the meaning of their existence.
“True wealth is not what you have, it is what you are left with when you lose everything you had,”- says James Ray.
Your inner world is the only thing that truly belongs to you. Your inner qualities are the main value that no one can ever take away from you. What you have in your soul will remain with you forever and will serve as a reliable foundation at any time.
Even in the face of incredible losses and the most difficult landings, who you are will allow you to recover and return to an even higher level again, because sustainable growth will always come from the inside out. That's why, The first component of Success is you! It is from the level of “Be” that your ascent begins.
Enel Charles, the founder of New Thinking in his famous book “The Master Key System” writes: “We must be before we do, and we can only do to the extent that we are, and therefore everything we do coincides with what we are, and what we are depends on what what we think."
Mahatma Gandhi said: “Be the change you want to see in the world.”
Before setting any external goals, you need to achieve the main internal goal. This means that you need to develop qualities in yourself that will move you towards your ideal. The beginning of your transformation is the beginning of observing and analyzing your mental and behavioral habits, because they determine the quality of your life.
James Ray in his book Harmonious Wealth writes: “If you decide to become a millionaire, then decide not for the green pieces of paper, but for the sake of who you have to become to get there.”
Remember that everything first arises in thoughts and then manifests itself in reality. “A new life is just a new way of thinking.”
And in order to teach your brain new thinking, it, just like your body, needs to be exercised. This particular process will involve working with your habits, habits at the level of actions and at the level of thoughts. But you must do it yourself; no one will do this “physical exercise” for you. published
The law of attraction is a very wise law by which life is built. Therefore, it is important to learn to develop intuitive abilities and attract into your life what you dream of.
The law of attraction is a very wise law by which life is built. Therefore, it is important to learn to develop intuitive abilities and attract into your life what you dream of.
Perhaps you dream of traveling the world?
Have you always wanted to write a book?
Or are you thinking about opening your own cafe?
Every person has unique dreams, but only a few believe that their fulfillment is possible. Never let someone tell you that you can't do something. Believe in yourself.
30 things that will take you to new heights
We need to spread our wings!
Find your purpose and meaning in this life. The most important thing is to consider them absolutely real and watch how they come to fruition.
And then you can show others that life is not as tough as we always think it is. And that we are lucky to live in this wonderful world where miracles happen every day.
1. Be positive
Go through life with a positive attitude. When you speak, do it with good intentions. Attract positive thoughts no matter what you do.The more positive energy you have in your thoughts, the less negativity there will be in your life.
2. Be grateful
There is much in this world for which we can be grateful. Be grateful for your family. Be grateful for your friends. Be grateful for home. Be grateful for food. Be grateful for the adventure.
There are many people on this planet who can only dream of what you are already lucky enough to have.
3. Believe in your dreams
Attract what you dream of. After all, it is your dreams that can turn life into an endless miracle.
Whatever you need or want must be believed without doubt.
4. Follow your intuition
You are the only one who has control over what happens in your mind. If something makes you feel good, you should definitely do it. It is important to listen carefully to your inner voice. You must know and be prepared for the fact that your intuition will help you.
5. Have the courage to follow your heart
The law of attraction will affect your heart. And if the desire of your heart leads to heartache, then you need to be able to face suffering with courage. Courage gives strength.
Don't let others drag you down. Surround yourself with people who want to see you succeed and remember to support them.
6. Listen to your instincts
We always say that intuition gives the right clues. But our instincts can, on the contrary, make us weak. Pay attention to this “weak link” and be aware of it. Don't give in, stay on your toes!
7. Give people kindness
Treat others the way you want to be treated. We've all heard this saying. But it is important not only to know it, but also to follow it. Treat other people with kindness. This creates a world filled with virtuous karma.
8. Travel inspires and takes you to the next level.
Travel is one of the strongest activators of changes in life. Every time you travel, you see new places, new people, and experience new perspectives. And all this is excellent “fuel” for our life-changing “mechanism”.
9. Find time to do what you enjoy I
The Law of Attraction suggests that we attract what we want. Do you want to have more time to do what you enjoy most? If this is the case, don’t say “it’s impossible,” but start finding at least 10 minutes to start. Show your passion.
11. Be sincere with everyone
Be yourself. Nobody likes fake personalities. Be real, be honest, be kind, be able to admit mistakes.
12. Don't practice hypocrisy
Show others that you can do something that those around you can too. If you want to attract all the good, then you yourself must also be a source of good.
13. Realize that your imagination is very powerful.
Imagine your dreams coming true. The Law of Attraction applies to whatever you want to become a reality. If you always think about your dream and visualize it, you will help make it come true.
14. Be passionate about what interests you
Be enthusiastic about learning about things that interest you. If you are truly passionate about something, you should learn as much as possible about it.
15. Forget about failures
There is no need to replay failures in your head. Focus on success and happiness.
16. Understand that worry, stress and fear don't matter.
Forget about fear. If we focus on eliminating worry, stress and fear, our lives will be happier. The unknown is scary, but the heart is waiting for adventure to fill life.
17. Recognize that everything happens for a reason.
Defeats and losses also have their purpose. Life sometimes leads us in a very mysterious, but in its own beautiful way.
18. Be honest, because lies are useless
If you want to attract something true into your life, always tell the truth and you will never have to hide anything. If you are ashamed of something, admit it.
Never blame anyone for doing wrong. Control your grievances and learn to find your mistakes.
19. Live as if every day is a miracle.
Live as if your dreams are coming true every day. Live as if there were no tomorrow. And miracles will begin to happen around you.
Albert Einstein said: “There are two ways to live. The first is as if no miracles exist, and the second is as if there are only miracles everywhere.”
20. Be open
In order to attract what you want, you must have an open mind. Having an open mind allows you to gain multiple perspectives.
21. Don't let school interfere with your education.
This is what a famous professor once said. In other words, school is not the only place where people receive education. You will also learn a lot from other sources and personal experience.
22. Learn from everyone
We must learn not only from our own experience. You can learn a lot from others. We all have something to learn. This proves that together we are capable of more.
23. Know how to notice the best in people
If we see something better in others, they are more likely to see something better in us. This is also the law of attraction. Start small, give someone the benefit of the doubt. If a person stops disappointing you, it means that you have become better for him.
24. Believe in abundance and freedom
Along with freedom comes abundance. Once you achieve freedom (it's not about money), you can do whatever you want. Allow yourself to be happy for free and help others. Liberation brings abundance into life.
25. Focus on desires
Attract what you need and your desires will be fruitful. Needs come gradually. At the appointed time.
26. Don’t get hung up on the fact that money can buy happiness.
We buy material things with money. But joy and love cannot be bought for them. Ambition and success cannot be bought with money either. No one can sell you wonderful dreams or a purpose in life for money. Moreover, by giving someone your last ruble, you can completely change their life. But yours will change for another reason.
27. Remember that there is always room for improvement.
Nobody is perfect in this world. You may not be born a prodigy or with the talent that you yourself now wish you had. But you can develop. Why not gain knowledge about everything that interests you, and then improve on what you find most important?
28. Don't give up
Do not give up! Nowhere, never and under no circumstances!
29. Be patient
Patience is a true value. Everyone dreams of achieving their goals at a fast pace, but more often than not, you need to have patience to go all the way.
30. Inspire others!
Strive to inspire. Your ambition and enthusiasm can be a great motivator for those around you. Show people that our life is a great journey. Thanks to our imagination, dreams can be controlled. But it is we who can give them freedom, and then they will begin to come true! published
The law of attraction is a very wise law by which life is built. Therefore, it is important to learn to develop intuitive abilities and attract into your life what you dream of.
Perhaps you dream of traveling the world? Have you always wanted to write a book? Or are you thinking about opening your own cafe? Every person has unique dreams, but only a few believe that their fulfillment is possible. Never let someone tell you that you can't do something. Believe in yourself.
We need to spread our wings! Find your purpose and meaning in this life. The most important thing is to consider them absolutely real and watch how they come to fruition. And then you can show others that life is not as tough as we always think it is. And that we are lucky to live in this wonderful world where miracles happen every day.
1. Be positive
Go through life with a positive attitude. When you speak, do it with good intentions. Attract positive thoughts no matter what you do. The more positive energy you have in your thoughts, the less negativity there will be in your life.
2. Be grateful
There is much in this world for which we can be grateful. Be grateful for your family. Be grateful for your friends. Be grateful for home. Be grateful for food. Be grateful for the adventure.
There are many people on this planet who can only dream of what you are already lucky enough to have.
3. Believe in your dreams
Attract what you dream of. After all, it is your dreams that can turn life into an endless miracle.
Whatever you need or want must be believed without doubt.
4. Follow your intuition
You are the only one who has control over what happens in your mind. If something makes you feel good, you should definitely do it. It is important to listen carefully to your inner voice. You must know and be prepared for the fact that your intuition will help you.
5. Have the courage to follow your heart
The law of attraction will affect your heart. And if the desire of your heart leads to heartache, then you need to be able to face suffering with courage. Courage gives strength.
Don't let others drag you down. Surround yourself with people who want to see you succeed and remember to support them.
6. Listen to your instincts
We always say that intuition gives the right clues. But our instincts can, on the contrary, make us weak. Pay attention to this “weak link” and be aware of it. Don't give in, stay on your toes!
7. Give good things to people
8. Travel inspires and takes you to the next level
Travel is one of the strongest activators of changes in life. Every time you travel, you see new places, new people, and experience new perspectives. And all this is excellent “fuel” for our life-changing “mechanism”.
9. Find time to do what you enjoy
The Law of Attraction suggests that we attract what we want. Do you want to have more time to do what you enjoy most? If this is the case, don’t say “it’s impossible,” but start finding at least 10 minutes to start.
10. Show your passion.
11. Be sincere with everyone
Be yourself. Nobody likes fake personalities. Be real, be honest, be kind, be able to admit mistakes.
12. Don't practice hypocrisy
Show others that you can do something that those around you can too. If you want to attract all the good, then you yourself must also be a source of good.
13. Realize that your imagination is very powerful
Imagine your dreams coming true. The Law of Attraction applies to whatever you want to become a reality. If you always think about your dream and visualize it, you will help make it come true.
14. Be passionate about what interests you
Be enthusiastic about learning about things that interest you. If you are truly passionate about something, you should learn as much as possible about it.
15. Forget about failures
There is no need to replay failures in your head. Focus on success and happiness.
16. Understand: Worry, stress and fear don't matter.
Forget about fear. If we focus on eliminating worry, stress and fear, our lives will be happier. The unknown is scary, but the heart is waiting for adventure to fill life.
17. Recognize that everything happens for a reason.
Defeats and losses also have their purpose. Life sometimes leads us in a very mysterious, but in its own beautiful way.
18. Be honest, lies are useless
If you want to attract something true into your life, always tell the truth and you will never have to hide anything. If you are ashamed of something, admit it.
Never blame anyone for doing wrong. Control your grievances and learn to find your mistakes.
19. Live like every day is a miracle
Live as if your dreams are coming true every day. Live as if there were no tomorrow. And miracles will begin to happen around you.
Albert Einstein said: “There are two ways to live. The first is as if no miracles exist, and the second is as if there are only miracles everywhere.”
20. Be open
In order to attract what you want, you must have an open mind. Having an open mind allows you to gain multiple perspectives.
21. Don't let school interfere with your education
This is what a famous professor once said. In other words, school is not the only place where people receive education. You will also learn a lot from other sources and personal experience.
22. Learn from everyone
We must learn not only from our own experience. You can learn a lot from others. We all have something to learn. This proves that together we are capable of more.
23. Know how to notice the best in people
If we see something better in others, they are more likely to see something better in us. This is also the law of attraction. Start small, give someone the benefit of the doubt. If a person stops disappointing you, it means that you have become better for him.
24. Believe in abundance and freedom
Along with freedom comes abundance. Once you achieve freedom (it's not about money), you can do whatever you want. Allow yourself to be happy for free and help others. Liberation brings abundance into life.
25. Focus on desires
Attract what you need and your desires will be fruitful. Needs come gradually. At the appointed time.
26. Don't get hung up on the fact that money can buy happiness
We buy material things with money. But joy and love cannot be bought for them. Ambition and success cannot be bought with money either. No one can sell you wonderful dreams or a purpose in life for money. Moreover, by giving someone your last ruble, you can completely change their life. But yours will change for another reason.
27. Remember there is always room for improvement
Nobody is perfect in this world. You may not be born a prodigy or with the talent that you yourself now wish you had. But you can develop. Why not gain knowledge about everything that interests you, and then improve on what you find most important?
28. Do not give up
Do not give up! Nowhere, never and under no circumstances!
29. be patient
Patience is a true value. Everyone dreams of achieving their goals at a fast pace, but more often than not, you need to have patience to go all the way.
30. Inspire others!
Strive to inspire. Your ambition and enthusiasm can be a great motivator for those around you. Show people that our life is a great journey. Thanks to our imagination, dreams can be controlled. But it is we who can give them freedom, and then they will begin to come true!
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Our life is based on desires. They, like fuel, constantly feed us, like coal in the butt of a steam locomotive - they ignite in us the ability to move on, to go forward. Therefore, it is simply vital for us to achieve what we really want. Then we ask ourselves: how can we still attract into our lives the happiness that we picture in our dreams?
The Internet is now replete with various tips and practices, especially from the esoteric sphere. Buddhist practices and meditations have also become very popular, which help us achieve the desired result through calming and even pacifying our overly active desires.
The first thing that can be taken away from the totality of advice is the definition of a goal or desire. It should be formed first of all in your head/heart (as you wish) as clearly as possible. Higher powers, the universe or God will not hear fuzzy, vague desires. You need to understand for yourself what you want. Here, of course, the rational aspect will also work: when you are clearly aware of your goal, you will be able to achieve it, because your consciousness will be able to pave the whole path to achieving your goal. It is advisable to justify the desire as if you have already achieved it. As if in the present time you are already happy, healthy, rich and loved. Now you have already received it - experience the sphere of emotions that the acquisition of your cherished gives you. Feel in detail every moment, every thread that goes from your heart to the center of your imaginary desire. Imagine holding a huge amount of money or jewelry in your hands. like holding the hand of any person, feel how warm and cozy you are. Such practices, combined with pragmatic real actions, will not be superfluous. Let's be clear: when you want something, you must have the drive to make it happen. It doesn’t matter whether you are an atheist or an avid Orthodox Christian, a Buddhist or an agnostic - what sets you on fire from the inside and what gives you incentive is valuable. Therefore, do not pay attention to social reviews about all religious movements and esoteric practices - your task is to obtain an inner fire that will give you the strength to move and overcome mountains.
After you have formalized your desire and felt it, you need to let it go. Forget for a while about what you so passionately desire. This will not be easy, thoughts will swarm in your head again and again, however, such a step is necessary. Imagine that you want to erase a mistake you made with a pencil, for example. You rub and rub so hard that you make a hole. A hole in your mind and feelings is of no use to you. Therefore, free yourself from the bonds of what you want (and every Buddhist knows what every desire is fraught with) and live a wonderful, inspired life. Before you can blink your eye, you will see the results of your fulfilled desire, and all because you believed.
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Throughout our lives, we all have many different desires. And we strive to implement them. Man is a collection of desires, he is woven from desires. Desires arise every moment of time, constantly, without interruption. And it is important to achieve them. We fulfill some desires, some we don’t.
Why don't all wishes come true?
How to learn to fulfill what you want? How to change your life for the better? How to attract good luck? How to attract success?
You must immediately divide your desires into:
- There are desires, such as “I want.”
- And there are desires, such as “it would be nice,” which are not really desires, but I would call them fantasies.
"I want"- this is not even a desire, but rather an intention to get what you want:
- I want to find a decent job.
- I want to go on vacation.
- I want to be happy.
- I want to buy a new car.
"It would be great if"- this is from the category of unrealizable fantasies that do not come true because there is no intention behind them to achieve them.
- It would be nice to have a yacht.
- It would be nice to buy an island.
- It would be nice to become a billionaire.
- It would be nice to fly into space.
Each of our thoughts has an energy charge, and whether our desires will come true and how quickly this will happen depends on our faith and our emotions that we experience when we think about our desire. The stronger the emotion (both negative and positive) that is present when a thought appears, the faster the physical manifestation of our desire occurs or does not occur.
Another very important point.The most important thing is to consciously create your desires. The Universe is a huge Xerox that constantly copies your Feelings and emotions. When we are in a state of “wanting” something, she copies it, and we are always in a state of “wanting”, not “getting”!
That's why to get what you want it is always advised FEEL what we want as if we had already received it, so that the Universe would copy our feeling and present us with what we ordered. Therefore, it is very important to visualize or imagine that what we want has already come true, because our subconscious does not know the difference between what we imagine and what we actually see! The Universe registers only our emotions. And if we imagine what we want and feel joy, then it will multiply. For the same reason, millions of people cannot fulfill their desires, being in a repeated state of “wanting” rather than “getting.”
Knowing all this, I use the following exercise in my life to quickly get what I want. I call it “creating intention.” It consists of three parts. It is important to do it in writing because when we write, we are in a state of highest concentration.
- I take a piece of paper and write down my desire in as much detail as possible.
- I turn the paper over and on the back I write: “I intend to receive this for the following reasons……..”. And I list all the reasons why I intend to get it: “I deserve the best”, “this thing will make me happier”, “my happiness and my joy will make the whole Universe better”...)))), etc. . Do not be shy!
- The most enjoyable and powerful part of conscious creation is GRATITUDE. I thank you in advance and rejoice that my wish is coming true, because the Universe is already working hard to fulfill it. And even if I don’t see it coming to fruition yet, I I KNOW, that now the main thing is not to interfere with the Universe from fulfilling it, and to allow me what I want to come into my life. Therefore, as soon as the germ of a thought arises in my mind that a desire may not come true, I do not allow the negative thought to unfold, but tell myself: “ STOP!”, I take out a piece of paper and begin to read the reasons why it should come true. That’s why it’s important to write everything down and have the sheet with you. At the same time, remember about the Xerox and think that your wish is coming true.
Please note that in my conscious creation of intention I do not write that I “want” something, but I write with the intention “ get". Also, when a desire arises, I use the word “ I choose«.
But first, I suggest you define within yourself the concepts of “I want” and “I need.” And then, when the desire is determined, when you see that it is yours, not imposed, comes from the Soul and you really want to fulfill it, you move on to conscious embodiment, then you can use “intend to receive” or “I choose.”
This way you can quickly bring into life what you strive for.
ANGLE OF VIEW CHANGES EVERYTHING!
All your wishes must be fulfilled. This is a process of endless development and a feeling of fullness of life. You deserve to live a life of abundance and prosperity. Achieve easily, receive with joy, and be happy.
I love everyone.